Timika S Chambers

Say Yes to Respect!

Posted on November 2, 2023     Leave a Comment

Hi there,

One life taken is too many. One life spared helps many.

I don’t want to have a conversation after something potentially traumatic happens. I’d rather conversate now and “nip things in the bud,” one of the life principles my mother taught me. I started talking to my children about love, privacy, and self-respect during infancy. Although I knew my babies couldn’t articulate what they heard, I knew their hearts and minds received my heart-inspired messages.

Bullying has so many factors involved. We must address the foundation of the people being bullied and those who project their pain on others. Guardians, parents, school administrators, teachers, coaches, and others must be aware of bullying-type behavior and address it accordingly, even if it means unveiling unhealthy behavior in homes, schools, and other establishments.

Here are five interventions I continue to do within my family.

1. Cultivate communication within my family. Everything starts within the home, especially when children find their voices. The more we realize this, the more accountable we hold ourselves to our children’s behavior and increase responsibility in addressing unhealthy actions. A child’s issue is a family’s issue.
2. Ask my children child about the day’s events. I ask questions such as: What happened today? Did you hear or see anything troublesome (cursing, inappropriate language, fighting, yelling, etc.)? Was anything done to resolve the issue? Sometimes, we delay homework so that my children can express their emotions, feelings, and the day’s events. By addressing behaviors, we reinforce the moral foundation within ourselves, our children, and hopefully others involved.
3. Address unhealed wounds so I can be present to break the cycle. Change starts with you as the parent. It’s hard to see someone else’s pain when yours imprisons you. Self-assessment and intervention are pivotal to breaking the generational cycle of pain.
4. Seek the truth and cultivate truth within my family. Several years ago, I encouraged my children to speak the truth, for I am on the side of truth. Often, we are silent because we want to uphold the status quo, but upholding the status quo provides a hiding space for unhealthy behavior. My family and I continue to address bullying-type behavior in all environments, including schools.
5. Act immediately. I don’t like when I have to tell grown people that their actions or others’ aren’t okay. And, yes, fear visits me during many of my experiences. However, the desire to break the cycle overrules.

Don’t let things happen for you to take experiences seriously. You have the right to create the family you want, and it’s okay if it looks different from what you experienced as a child. As parents, we must help our children build a solid character foundation to weather life’s storms. We won’t always be with them, but life principles, listening to and addressing our children’s concerns (and adults) can help them go far in life.

You can also listen to the Seeds We Plant Series #22: Respect on Create a Generational Love Cycle.

The Principles My Mother Lived, and How They Live Within Me & Now Within the World – Create A Generational Love Cycle With Timika S Chambers

Keywords: #TheInnerGarden #emotionalhealing #generationalhealing #personaltransformation #spiritualgrowth #spiritualityHi there!I hope all is well with you! I had the absolute pleasure of having my mother on my podcast, Create a Generational Love Cycle. This desire stemmed from years of wanting others to know the power of the life lessons she reminded her children of, so they could have a better life than she did.Unscripted…raw, with crackling voices, a spirit-moving conversation with one of my best friends.In this podcast, my mother and I share our thoughts on:· Moving past pain· Cultivating humility· Going beyond attracting what you want· Creating the family you want· Mastering your emotions and feelings and differentiating your emotions from others· Separating yourself from pain and moreSo grab your tissues….Feel the love. Listen here:My book, The Inner Garden, is my gift to the world, and just the start of me returning the blessings to my mother. In it, you find evergreen, life-giving, and life-sustaining principles to help you return to your true self.You can purchase The Inner Garden at these locations:Amazon eBookhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GZ5QS7K2Amazon Paperbackhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0HGXSTNSSDraft 2 Digital eBookhttps://books2read.com/u/b66DL0Barnes and Noble eBookhttps://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-inner-garden-timika-chambers/1150068469?ean=2940185372463Google Play eBookhttps://play.google.com/store/books/details?id=hcfXEQAAQBAJTimika’s Website: Remember Who You Are https://timikaschambers.com/Save $2 on eBook here:You can stay abreast of the heart-work I am doing and sign up for the Notes on Life Empowering You to Be You newsletter at https://timikaschambers.com/

1. The Principles My Mother Lived, and How They Live Within Me & Now Within the World 58:47
2. The Seeds We Plant Series #76: Are You Cultivating Weeds of Inferiority? 21:11
3. Healing from the Inside Out Series #42: Why a Pure Heart is Necessary for True Self-Expression 16:33
4. The Power of Self-Understanding and Overcoming Stereotypes: A Reflection on Inner Peace 18:32
5. Healing from the Inside Out Series #41: Nip Things in the Bud 20:46

One life taken is too many. One life spared helps many.

One voice”Š”””Š-one action can change the trajectory of many lives.

Make this lifetime great because you still can!