Heal from the Inside Out Series #17: How much power have you given to pain?

Posted on November 10, 2024     Leave a Comment

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Hi there!

Welcome to Sunday, November 10th, 2024, another day to align with the highest version of yourself. 

Do you believe that life is only a struggle to the end? Or, do you believe that happiness, joy, and an abundant life in all realms is possible during our earthly journey?

What have we allowed it (pain) to do to us? What we deem as powerful often wins. Do you believe more in the power of discomfort, dis-ease, painful experiences than of healing and enjoying the gift of life?

In Heal from the Inside Out Series#16: How much power have you given to pain?, I share my thoughs on “it” (pain) and how it’s important to keep our eyes on what we want in life. Often using four words, “I don’t have to,” can be the shift we need away from seeing ourselves as a victim to a transcender.

Listen to Heal from the Inside Out Series #16: How much power have you given to pain? on Create a Generational Love Cycle.

Heal from the Inside Out Series #16: How much power have you given to pain? by Create A”¦
What we deem as powerful often wins. Do you believe more in the power of discomfort, dis-ease, painful experiences than”¦podcasters.spotify.com

Heal from the Inside Out Series #38: Vengeance is not a band-aid or cure. – Create A Generational Love Cycle With Timika S Chambers

My mother told me that I did not have to do anything to anybody. Vengeance can be tempting. It’s easy to think that belittling, demeaning, cursing, and physically hurting someone may heal our wounds; however, vengeful behavior only deepens the wound and can change us into something unbecoming (not our true selves). Whatever we consistently think of, we deposit the seeds within us, and these seeds will eventually produce a harvest.Keywordspain, healing, self-expression, vengeance, love, mentalhealth, relationships, personal growth, emotional well-being, self-worthSummaryIn this conversation, Timika S Chambers explores theprofound impact of emotional pain and the weeds of negative thoughts that can hinder personal growth and relationships. She emphasizes the importance of healing, self-expression, and the power of thoughts in shaping our lives.Chambers advocates for breaking the cycle of pain and creating a generational love cycle, highlighting that true power lies in love rather than vengeance. The discussion encourages listeners to take control of their lives, acknowledge their experiences, and choose healing over resentment.TakeawaysThe sting of projected pain can increase susceptibility tonegative emotions.Overlooking emotional weeds can lead to chronic healthissues and unhealthy relationships.We often rationalize unhealthy relationships, thinking theyare better than past experiences.Negative thoughts can cloud our perception of life, love,and purpose.We have the power to design our lives through our thoughtsand intentions.Healing begins with acknowledging the truth of ourexperiences.Vengeance does not lead to healing; it perpetuates the cycleof pain.We must take control of our thoughts to create a positivelife.True self-expression is rooted in love and acceptance.Creating a generational love cycle is essential for breakingthe cycle of pain.TitlesBreaking Free from Pain: The Path to HealingThe Power of Thoughts: Creating Your RealityFor more empowering messages, consider subscribing to Notes on Life: Empowering You to Be You! https://mailchi.mp/fe2da5c9163a/seven-spiritual-truths    
  1. Heal from the Inside Out Series #38: Vengeance is not a band-aid or cure.
  2. The Seeds We Plant Series #69: Stereotypes
  3. Heal from the Inside Out Series #37: Don't Let Someone Else Tell You to Do the Right Thing
  4. The Seeds We Plant Series #68: Self-Hatred
  5. Heal from the Inside Out Series #36: My mama told me, "What is for Me, I Will Get & I Believed Her."

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Are you tired of: 1. Absorbing others’ projected pain? 2. Repeating behaviors that don’t align with your values? 3”¦mailchi.mp

As always, make this lifetime great because you still can!

Timika

The Seeds We Plant Series # 49: Character Before Purpose and After That

Posted on November 7, 2024     Leave a Comment

Hi there!

Looking at today’s world events, we can’t help but wonder what is causing so much turmoil, especially among those who appear to have it all. Is it too much money? Is money evil, then? Is it being famous? Should we avoid any career that increases our chances of being known by many people?

Or, are the events we experience, read, and see the result of seeds that have sprouted and blossomed within us? Is it a broken moral foundation that increases our susceptibility to unhealthy actions? Is it unhealed wounds that continue to bleed and infect others?

Should I not want to be prosperous, the promise from our Creator (Jeremiah 29:11)?

The temptation to dominate humans, misuse, and use has no regard for color, race, religion, or other worldly dividers. The desire to do what’s opposite of our spiritual makeup is not to “get us” or make us feel less than we are. Instead, temptation is:

  1. A call and an opportunity for self-assessment and healing from the inside out. We must dig within our hearts and minds to identify and remove the anger, anxiety, confusion, doubt, guilt, resentment, shame, vengeance, and other like-minded weeds.
  2. A means to purify us or the work they are here to do. Temptation is a tool for enjoying the fruits of our labor. 
  3. A means to help others overcome similar temptations.
  4. Ultimately, it is a means to unite with the divine within us.

Moral character building is reestablishing who we are (our spiritual blueprint) and part of our divine work here on Earth. A moral foundation is necessary to enjoy the fruits of our labor and align ourselves with the truth inside us. We distract ourselves from the solution when we blame money and other inanimate things for a person’s actions.

Let the morally wrong things you experience, hear, and see in the world be an opportunity to get to the root causes of such behaviors. 

  1. Talk to your children about morality and virtues.
  2. Discuss age and intellectually-appropriate experiences and ask for their input or what they would do.
  3. Assess yourself as your children’s primary teacher, and ask what moral examples you are setting.
  4. Address inappropriate behavior efficiently and effectively.

How are you influencing the next generation to put character before divine work? 

How are you reinforcing kindness, patience, respect, and other like-minded innate virtues? 

Are you daily resewing and nurturing virtuous behaviors in the next #animators, #composers, #musicians, #singers, #dancers, $teachers, #coaches, #writers, #speakers, and other #divine #creators?

Yes, we want our children to be successful, but at what price? Character is not the last or unavoidable when lives are at stake. 

We change the present and future by what we do today.

Check out my podcast on The Seeds We Plant Series # 20: Character Before Purpose, on Create a Generational Love Cycle

The Seeds We Plant Series #20: Character Before Purpose by Create A Generational Love Cycle With”¦
Character building is necessary to enjoy the fruit of our labor and keep us aligned with our truth. When we blame”¦podcasters.spotify.com

Heal from the Inside Out Series #38: Vengeance is not a band-aid or cure. – Create A Generational Love Cycle With Timika S Chambers

My mother told me that I did not have to do anything to anybody. Vengeance can be tempting. It’s easy to think that belittling, demeaning, cursing, and physically hurting someone may heal our wounds; however, vengeful behavior only deepens the wound and can change us into something unbecoming (not our true selves). Whatever we consistently think of, we deposit the seeds within us, and these seeds will eventually produce a harvest.Keywordspain, healing, self-expression, vengeance, love, mentalhealth, relationships, personal growth, emotional well-being, self-worthSummaryIn this conversation, Timika S Chambers explores theprofound impact of emotional pain and the weeds of negative thoughts that can hinder personal growth and relationships. She emphasizes the importance of healing, self-expression, and the power of thoughts in shaping our lives.Chambers advocates for breaking the cycle of pain and creating a generational love cycle, highlighting that true power lies in love rather than vengeance. The discussion encourages listeners to take control of their lives, acknowledge their experiences, and choose healing over resentment.TakeawaysThe sting of projected pain can increase susceptibility tonegative emotions.Overlooking emotional weeds can lead to chronic healthissues and unhealthy relationships.We often rationalize unhealthy relationships, thinking theyare better than past experiences.Negative thoughts can cloud our perception of life, love,and purpose.We have the power to design our lives through our thoughtsand intentions.Healing begins with acknowledging the truth of ourexperiences.Vengeance does not lead to healing; it perpetuates the cycleof pain.We must take control of our thoughts to create a positivelife.True self-expression is rooted in love and acceptance.Creating a generational love cycle is essential for breakingthe cycle of pain.TitlesBreaking Free from Pain: The Path to HealingThe Power of Thoughts: Creating Your RealityFor more empowering messages, consider subscribing to Notes on Life: Empowering You to Be You! https://mailchi.mp/fe2da5c9163a/seven-spiritual-truths    
  1. Heal from the Inside Out Series #38: Vengeance is not a band-aid or cure.
  2. The Seeds We Plant Series #69: Stereotypes
  3. Heal from the Inside Out Series #37: Don't Let Someone Else Tell You to Do the Right Thing
  4. The Seeds We Plant Series #68: Self-Hatred
  5. Heal from the Inside Out Series #36: My mama told me, "What is for Me, I Will Get & I Believed Her."

As always, let me know your thoughts.

Make this lifetime great because you still can!

Timika

Is Blame Keeping You Stuck in Achieving Your Divine Purpose?

Posted on November 3, 2024     Leave a Comment

Is the weight of blame holding you back on your earthly journey? Is it robbing you of your joy, peace, and life’s purpose?

Good morning to you, and welcome to another opportunity to align with the highest version of yourself!

Blame is tomorrow, November 4th, Monday’s Heart-to-Heart topic on Fulfill Your Divine Purpose Facebook Live at 930 am Central Time.

At the root of every action is intention. Is blame fueling your life’s divine purpose?

Are you blaming your past and current circumstances on your parents, husband, wife, teachers, children, dog, coaches, experiences, co-workers, schools, programs, etc.? Are you creating your future with blame? Blame can have us doing the right things for the wrong reasons. Blame can cause you to overlook critical details.

    Blame remains until you put the life event in a spiritual perspective. Blame can keep us stuck. Blame is a way of putting our power in someone else’s hands.  Instead of seeing and utilizing our power and making the best out of our situations, we lose sight of our divine purpose.

    If you are using blame to catapult your career or life’s work, how’s it working for you?  

    1. Do you sleep well at night or spend hours thinking about how wrong someone treated you and that they caused you to miss out on an opportunity? (Is your life purpose really in their hands or your Creator’s?
    2. Do you cringe or cause tension in your body when you hear, see, or think of those you blame? 
    3. Do you overeat or undereat because of blaming others for not feeding you properly? Withholding food from you?
    4. Do you perform any activity excessively to numb yourself from the actions or inactions of another?
    5. Do you release your right to be free and happy anytime you think of or see the person? Instead, you burn with anger, rage, resentment, and vengeance, causing more bodily harm, pain, dis-ease?

    Blame may last longer than your accomplished goals, and what will you do then?

    The key to success inside and out is not revenge but love.

    Love is compassion and forgiveness, and it helps you to see the bigger picture along your spiritual journey. Forgiveness doesn’t mean closeness or that you have to call or be in that person(s) face. You just no longer see the relevancy of blame.   You set healthy boundaries, and in turn, you naturally free yourself and others.

    Ultimately, you refuse to spend more energy, money, and time on blame. You realize that you deserve better.

    As always, make this lifetime great because you still can!

    Timika

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