Remember Who You Are Series #16: Know Our Creator For Yourself.

Hi there!

Our overall health and being in this world depend on our relationship with our Creator, the Source of life and living. This Higher Intuitive Energy is not limited to a book, building, religion, or anything else. What matters most is what we believe about this Energy, for out of it, we find ourselves and the true meaning of our lives. Our Creator wants a personal experience with everyone. The more you draw to it, the more it draws to you and reminds you that you are loved, loving, and can express love.

Listen to Remember Who You Are Series #16: Know Our Creator for Yourself, and let me know your thoughts. 

Know Our Creator For Yourself by Create A Generational Love Cycle With Timika S Chambers
Our overall health and being in this world depends on our relationship with our Creator, the Source of life and living”¦podcasters.spotify.com

Heal from the Inside Out Series #38: Vengeance is not a band-aid or cure. Create A Generational Love Cycle With Timika S Chambers

My mother told me that I did not have to do anything to anybody. Vengeance can be tempting. It’s easy to think that belittling, demeaning, cursing, and physically hurting someone may heal our wounds; however, vengeful behavior only deepens the wound and can change us into something unbecoming (not our true selves). Whatever we consistently think of, we deposit the seeds within us, and these seeds will eventually produce a harvest.Keywordspain, healing, self-expression, vengeance, love, mentalhealth, relationships, personal growth, emotional well-being, self-worthSummaryIn this conversation, Timika S Chambers explores theprofound impact of emotional pain and the weeds of negative thoughts that can hinder personal growth and relationships. She emphasizes the importance of healing, self-expression, and the power of thoughts in shaping our lives.Chambers advocates for breaking the cycle of pain and creating a generational love cycle, highlighting that true power lies in love rather than vengeance. The discussion encourages listeners to take control of their lives, acknowledge their experiences, and choose healing over resentment.TakeawaysThe sting of projected pain can increase susceptibility tonegative emotions.Overlooking emotional weeds can lead to chronic healthissues and unhealthy relationships.We often rationalize unhealthy relationships, thinking theyare better than past experiences.Negative thoughts can cloud our perception of life, love,and purpose.We have the power to design our lives through our thoughtsand intentions.Healing begins with acknowledging the truth of ourexperiences.Vengeance does not lead to healing; it perpetuates the cycleof pain.We must take control of our thoughts to create a positivelife.True self-expression is rooted in love and acceptance.Creating a generational love cycle is essential for breakingthe cycle of pain.TitlesBreaking Free from Pain: The Path to HealingThe Power of Thoughts: Creating Your RealityFor more empowering messages, consider subscribing to Notes on Life: Empowering You to Be You! https://mailchi.mp/fe2da5c9163a/seven-spiritual-truths    
  1. Heal from the Inside Out Series #38: Vengeance is not a band-aid or cure.
  2. The Seeds We Plant Series #69: Stereotypes
  3. Heal from the Inside Out Series #37: Don't Let Someone Else Tell You to Do the Right Thing
  4. The Seeds We Plant Series #68: Self-Hatred
  5. Heal from the Inside Out Series #36: My mama told me, "What is for Me, I Will Get & I Believed Her."

As always, make this lifetime great because you still can!

Timika

Timika S Chambers
Remember Who You Aretimikaschambers.com

Willamette Connections Academy: An Answered Prayer

Hi there,

The environments we choose for our children can foster growth or stagnation. In the summer of 2021, the Universe answered my prayers In the summer of 2021, the Universe answered my concerns and prayers about our children’s educational experience.  My children are no longer attending Willamette Connections Academy. Still, I wanted to share my experience with Connections Academy to share how the tuition-free online public school helped our family and the power of prayer. 

In 2019, before the COVID pandemic, my son was in the second grade, and my daughter was in Kindergarten. Both were in their 2nd school since our move to Oregon. I could tell they were unhappy and often received pushback from our daughter about going to her school. In addition, our children experienced bullying-type behavior (racist remarks and physical violence) in their schools. Although I volunteered and attended many school events, lunches, and parties with my children, I felt like an outsider regarding their education. Communication was sometimes not accurate, friendly, or timely. I didn’t know what my children were learning and how they were progressing until parent-teacher meetings or report card time (mostly report card time). I was often shocked by how some staff spoke to the students. In addition, before enrolling our children into their new district schools, a district employee told me our children could take Spanish at their prospective schools. I was excited to learn about our children’s opportunity to learn one of the languages on my bucket list. But shortly after starting their new schools, I learned that there was no way our children could take Spanish. 

When the Coronavirus storm hit in 2020, my husband and I utilized the momentary shutdown as an opportunity to homeschool our children. As the primary homeschooler, I developed a routine I thought would best meet our children’s needs. Then, during the summer of 2021, I wondered if I was meeting my children’s intellectual needs and how to do that consistently. What books should I buy? How much will they cost? How can we incorporate more socialization into their lives? I set my subconscious mind to seven major concepts and the ones gathered over the past year and discussed them with my husband. I wanted:

  1. A safe environment for our children to learn.
  2. Our children to excel in education.
  3. A program that would enhance character development and intellect and help them fulfill their divine purpose.
  4. Quality socialization opportunities. My husband, too, had concerns about their socialization skills.
  5. Teachers who encouraged and supported them.
  6. To know what our children were learning and intervene early and appropriately.
  7. Accurate, kind, and timely communication from the teachers.

Then, my husband mentioned that we should research online public school programs. While living in Ohio, we discussed the potential of putting our children in an online school. I narrowed my selection to two programs, K-12 and Willamette Connections Academy (Oregon-based programs). The deal breaker was how polite, accurate, and informational the Willamette Connections Academy’s staff was. I also learned that our children would have two live lessons instead of one, a recent addition, and would help with socialization.

Oregon’s Willamette Connections Academy was the answer to my prayers and then some, including exceeding my philosophy about schools and education. Here are ten critical concepts Williamette Connections Academy exceeded in providing our family.

  1. Character/Intellect: Schools should reinforce character development, intellect, and purpose. Virtues like kindness were common themes and threaded throughout the courses and their lessons. Unlike now, my children didn’t hear racist remarks and foul language (for my son, often daily).
  2. Kind and Respectful Teachers: The teachers welcomed my questions and answered accurately, kindly, and timely. They sometimes offered immediate, timely, and consistent help with concepts our children needed help with.
  3. Multicultural Education: Both children could take various courses (languages, art, and music). Unlike a recent experience, Willamette Connections Academy communicated consistently about electives, and students chose their electives instead of the school choosing classes for them. They saw children who looked like them in their classrooms.
  4. Balance and Flexibility: Our children had a life outside school (during day hours instead of just evening) and plan activities accordingly. For example, my son would do Freckle Math in the morning as his daily homework before he completed his classes. Unlike now, my children didn’t feel rushed to attend classes or take notes. My son has four minutes to get from one class to another. They could watch live lesson recordings if they missed class or wanted to watch how a teacher solved a math problem again and didn’t have to worry about teachers being upset about being asked questions. I scheduled homework throughout the day instead of completing homework after a complete school day. My children completed a small ELA assignment on Saturday mornings. 
  5. Parenteral Involvement: Willamette Connections Academy understands that parents are ultimately responsible for their children’s education. I knew what my children were learning. I didn’t feel like I was chasing down the teacher or begging the teacher for reviewed content. Daily, I could see our children’s progress and intervene immediately. I had access to books, quick checks, quizzes, and tests to see my children’s progress and review concepts they needed support with. My husband and I received emails that our children received. Consistent communication helped bridge potential communication gaps.
  6. Family Bonding/ Involvement: We could attend events with the school and as a family. My family and I had a lot of balance and flexibility. We could travel and attend our son’s late evening Taekwondo classes. We ate meals together, discussed life and purpose, and held daily morning devotion. Our children could delay their studies if they weren’t feeling well or needed extra time and not feel punished. Likewise, our children could finish their studies before we went to events or on vacation. Most importantly, I could see days and weeks ahead of lessons, quick checks, quizzes, projects, and tests.
  7. Timely Reminders: Recently, my son said that Willamette Connections Academy prepared him more for his tests. We had weeks to prepare for upcoming assignments, quick checks, and tests. We received information about elective courses and clubs a month or so before the sign-up time.
  8. Timely Communication with Teachers. I could email and call teachers to confirm or clarify assignment instructions and receive timely responses.
  9. Socialization-Williamette Connections offered various clubs to join. We had various electives we could choose from. In addition, we had opportunities to participate in field trips as a family.
  10. Education Shouldn’t Be Hard– Children shouldn’t be punished but feel empowered and treated respectfully. Connections used multiple teaching strategies (e.g., videos, personal stories, historical facts). Access to my children’s books, videos, assignments, and other school information helped me to help my children, especially since I graduated from high school over 30 years ago. I had easy access to answers to help ensure my children and I were on the right track. I loved the clear, often comical, concise, and short videos that explained (right to the basic math points) and reinforced math concepts.
  11. Children and Families Work At Their Own Pace-Education should not limit a child if they are ready to move to the next stage of their learning. We had access to courses, quizzes, tests, study guides, and rubrics for upcoming projects. In most cases, as long as our children completed their previous lesson for a course, they could complete the next lesson if they wanted to. They could take breaks from their lesson whenever they felt the need to do so. We often went outside, watched a family movie, or went to the park for up to an hour.
  12. Access to Information and Resources at our Fingertips- My children didn’t have to wait or ask the teacher for a study guide; it was already there, waiting for them to download, fill out, and use. I had immediate access to grades and could review quizzes to help my children with any material they needed more support. We had access to books and math answers to homework questions so my children could check their answers after completing them independently or for me to use if I was a little bit rusty in the area. I could review all of their lessons and materials months ahead.

The state we live in has no Connections, so our children are back to in-person school for now. Willamette Connections Academy helped prepare our children for their current school experiences. They know what school should be like and have advocated for themselves (with teachers, principals, and students). Like me, many families have expressed gratitude for Connections Academy’s services. I cannot underestimate the freedom, flexibility, and excellent education Willamette Connections provided to my children and me. I learned so much about history, how to educate my children, and how education should be.

You can check out the Connections Academy website if you are interested in your children attending a state-operated Connections Academy. Currently, Connections Academy is in over 30 states. 

Click the link below to access their website or Google “Connections Academy.”

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As always, make this lifetime great because you still can!

Timika

Public Education Should Not Be That Hard

Hi there,

Children are in school approximately 6”“8 hours a day, and they can feel empowered or dehumanized by this environment, a mental state that can go beyond their childhood years. Too many adults already experience anxiety, depression, doubt, fear, guilt, shame, etc. 

Before transitioning back to in-person school this school year, 2023”“2024, our children attended Williamette Connections Academy, a tuition-free online public education program. We enrolled them in online education in 2020, during COVID-19, due to bullying-type behavior, lack of accurate, consistent, and timely communication, and other reasons. 

Williamette Connections Academy reinforced several principles in providing quality education for children K-12, including that education shouldn’t be that hard. 

Here are seven of the many principles that are vital to quality public education.

1. Parents shouldn’t have to beg teachers to know how their children are progressing in school. We should receive accurate, consistent, kind, and timely feedback on our children’s progression throughout the school year.

2. Grading and teaching methodologies should be clearly explained. Children and parents shouldn’t have to guess what to do on assignments.

3. Children should be encouraged to advocate for themselves. A title (e.g., teacher, principal, or any other) does not negate children respectfully speaking their truth or asking necessary questions for them to understand their coursework. Teachers come from all ages.

4. Parents should know what their children are learning in school and feel empowered with resources to help their children be successful. There shouldn’t be surprises or what my husband calls “I got you moments.”

5. Teachers should assign work during the week instead of on weekends. Children and their families should be able to enjoy their weekend together. Therefore, completing weekend homework should be an option, not expected. Schools can unconsciously feed the adult habit of working on the weekends instead of enjoying their time off, spending time with their families and friends, and self-care.

6. Children should see staff following the core values of the school/district; it’s not enough to have empowering posters throughout the school and yet have staff calling students outside their names (e.g., wimps), comparing them to other students, or yelling at them. Recently, I learned that a school staff member in a high position called boys wimps multiple times because the boys struggled to do 80 curl-ups, something they weren’t previously trained to do. He didn’t offend the girls who didn’t complete the curl-ups with such language.

7. School administrations should address bullying-type behavior immediately and remind their students of their no-bullying policy consistently, including on bus rides to and from school.

Our children should feel safe in schools and not intimidated or constantly afraid of staff, students, or volunteers. Children must be in an environment where they can focus, learn, and grow.

I encourage parents everywhere to listen to their children. What are their concerns? What did they learn? What were their accomplishments for the day? What do they need your help with? How are other students, school staff, volunteers, and others treating them?

As parents, we must continue to reinforce our children’s moral foundation. Every day, I spend time with my children reviewing the day’s events. We continue to have family devotion in the morning with our children. I continue to immediately communicate with school staff about any concerns or unhealthy experiences during the day. I encourage our children to advocate for themselves and praise them when they do so. 

One bullying incident is enough. One child homicide/suicide is enough. One child anxious/depressed/living in fear of school staff is enough.

Educating our children shouldn’t be hard. And no matter what, parents are ultimately responsible for their children’s education. As parents, we must remember that nothing happens overnight, a life principle my mother often shared with her children. All behavior comes from consistent thoughts. We have within our power to intervene immediately, as my mother would also often tell me, “nip things in the bud.” Don’t let unhealthy behavior continue. 

What other principles about quality public education come to mind for you and your family?

Make this lifetime great because you still can!

Timika

Timika S Chambers
Remember Who You Aretimikaschambers.com

Create A Generational Love Cycle With Timika S Chambers * A podcast on Spotify for Podcasters
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Heal from the Inside Out Series #38: Vengeance is not a band-aid or cure. Create A Generational Love Cycle With Timika S Chambers

My mother told me that I did not have to do anything to anybody. Vengeance can be tempting. It’s easy to think that belittling, demeaning, cursing, and physically hurting someone may heal our wounds; however, vengeful behavior only deepens the wound and can change us into something unbecoming (not our true selves). Whatever we consistently think of, we deposit the seeds within us, and these seeds will eventually produce a harvest.Keywordspain, healing, self-expression, vengeance, love, mentalhealth, relationships, personal growth, emotional well-being, self-worthSummaryIn this conversation, Timika S Chambers explores theprofound impact of emotional pain and the weeds of negative thoughts that can hinder personal growth and relationships. She emphasizes the importance of healing, self-expression, and the power of thoughts in shaping our lives.Chambers advocates for breaking the cycle of pain and creating a generational love cycle, highlighting that true power lies in love rather than vengeance. The discussion encourages listeners to take control of their lives, acknowledge their experiences, and choose healing over resentment.TakeawaysThe sting of projected pain can increase susceptibility tonegative emotions.Overlooking emotional weeds can lead to chronic healthissues and unhealthy relationships.We often rationalize unhealthy relationships, thinking theyare better than past experiences.Negative thoughts can cloud our perception of life, love,and purpose.We have the power to design our lives through our thoughtsand intentions.Healing begins with acknowledging the truth of ourexperiences.Vengeance does not lead to healing; it perpetuates the cycleof pain.We must take control of our thoughts to create a positivelife.True self-expression is rooted in love and acceptance.Creating a generational love cycle is essential for breakingthe cycle of pain.TitlesBreaking Free from Pain: The Path to HealingThe Power of Thoughts: Creating Your RealityFor more empowering messages, consider subscribing to Notes on Life: Empowering You to Be You! https://mailchi.mp/fe2da5c9163a/seven-spiritual-truths    
  1. Heal from the Inside Out Series #38: Vengeance is not a band-aid or cure.
  2. The Seeds We Plant Series #69: Stereotypes
  3. Heal from the Inside Out Series #37: Don't Let Someone Else Tell You to Do the Right Thing
  4. The Seeds We Plant Series #68: Self-Hatred
  5. Heal from the Inside Out Series #36: My mama told me, "What is for Me, I Will Get & I Believed Her."