Part Of Accepting My Truth Was Shining The Lights On My Myths Part 1.

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Often, what imprisons us are our beliefs and expectations about people. I knew I had to shine the light on my assumptions to set myself free of anger, disappointment, and magnetizing friends.

Here are five major myths I demystify in Chapter One of my soon-to-be-published memoir, Bent Not Broken.

  1. Older individuals are wise and always make the right decisions. Truth: Wisdom is a choice, and because someone is older does not mean they always do the right thing.

2. People are less likely to believe you when the person abusing you is liked or popular. Truth: The Truth is the truth, regardless of the person telling it and the one involved.

3. All family members care for you and protect you from harm. Truth: Everyone experiences anger, jealousy, and other emotions and does not always deal with their emotions and feelings in healthy ways. Sometimes pain blinds people from others’ pain.

4. Telling on family members is breaking a family code. Talking back to an adult or talking while an adult talked got you the wrong look or a smack across the face. Truth: We must hold everyone accountable for their actions regardless of family ties, social status, and any other distractions to accountability.

5. People will not like me if I do not comply with their desires. Truth: I am not here to be liked by others. The Truth does not care about clicks.

I didn’t realize my assumptions all at once. As you know, healing is a process, and each day provided me priceless treasures in understanding the weakened areas in my foundation.

What myths about people are you still holding onto? How important is it that you reexamine your beliefs about people and life?

Make this lifetime great!

Timika

MSN BSN RN, Integrative Nutrition Health Coach, ACE Fitness Instructor, CDCES

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The Seeds We Plant Series #61: Addressing Weeds in Your Inner Garden Introduction – Create A Generational Love Cycle With Timika S Chambers

Inside of us is our spiritual garden. The heart is the soil. The nervous system is the vine that feeds the rest of our bodies, including our brain. What we grow inside of us, we become and experience. Weeds (consistent negative emotions and feelings) seek fertile soil, no matter what. There is no fear in this concept, for the power to rid ourselves of negative emotions and feelings resides in us. Through daily assessment and replanting of our spiritual seeds, we can yield the harvest that gives us the abundant life we are here to have. Introduction of WeedsKeywordsinner garden, spiritual growth, positive intentions,emotional health, self-awareness, generational love cycle, healing, personal development, weeds of negativity, abundant livingSummary In this conversation, Timika S Chambers explores the conceptof cultivating one's inner garden, emphasizing the importance of nurturing positive intentions and understanding our spiritual nature. She discusses the impact of negative emotions, likening them to weeds that can overtake our garden if not managed properly. The conversation highlights the significance of self-awareness and the power of transformation in living an abundant life, free from the burdens of past pain and negativity.TakeawaysWe attract people who see our goodness.We are all seeds sown into the earthly ground.Nurturing our goals leads to positive outcomes.Healing comes from within, not external fixes.Our experiences are meant to help us grow, not bring usdown.Weeds represent negative emotions that can overtake ourinner garden.Awareness is key to transforming our lives.We must assess what we allow into our inner garden.Pain can teach us valuable lessons about ourselves.Living an abundant life requires conscious effort andintention.Titles Cultivating Your Inner Garden: A Journey of GrowthThe Power of Positive Intentions in LifeSound Bites"Nurture your goals and desires.""We can transcend any experience.""Weeds attract more weeds.""We are here to experience life.""Nothing happens overnight." Chapters00:00 Cultivating Your Inner Garden02:50 The Power of Positive Intentions06:08 Understanding Our Spiritual Nature09:04 Weeds in the Garden: Negative Emotions12:00 The Impact of Our Environment14:47 Awareness and Transformation18:11 Living an Abundant LifeThanks for listening!Feel free to share this podcast with those who may benefit from it and your thoughts.Timika#podcast #breakthecycleofpain #personal development   
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