The Seeds We Plant Series #26: One of the Greatest Gifts of Parenthood

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The great thing about choice is that we all choose our perception of experiences. In other words, Just because others perceive something a certain way doesn’t mean you have to. The seeds we plant today will reap a harvest, and within that last statement is one of the greatest gifts of parenting. 

In The Seeds We Plant Series: One of the Greatest Gifts of Parenting, I share my first time realizing how powerful seeds are. Cultivating life-giving seeds is an opportunity that all parents have and is a means of breaking the generational cycle of pain. Daily, our children and we experience seeds of all kinds. Some are life-draining, while others are life-giving. Life-draining seeds come in many forms, such as negative opinions, stereotypes, and divisive actions and words. Our inner soil needs life-giving seeds, the right amount of light, fertilization (love), and water (our truths, such as our lives, have a purpose). 

Transforming our pain into light can help us and our children see clearly. I encourage my children to discuss their experiences, emotions, and feelings. Talking about experiences helps me see how my children are processing their experiences. I make myself available when they bring up the past and attentively listen as they offer their take on the experience. I encourage a student of life mentality by asking them, “What did you learn about yourself and the situation?” I can help them see and remove barriers, such as negative thoughts (rocks and weeds), that can interfere with the growth of healthy thinking. 

Proper fertilization can make the difference between a wilted and poorly grown fruit and a ripe and full of nutrition product. I tell my children daily that I love them, especially at night (one of the last seeds I plant in their subconscious). I praise my children often, regardless of how small the achievement may mean to them or others. Sometimes, I may go overboard:). I know that, eventually, that seed of praise will continue to grow as I water it. I look for opportunities to praise them in front of their father, relatives, and others. In addition, I make time (even when I have a pile of things to do) to spend time with them. Almost always, I receive blessings from doing so, and often, I receive another block of time to mark things off my to-do list. 

I’m always encouraging my children to drink plenty of water daily. And I aim to water their fertile soil daily with truths. I tell my children that their life has meaning and purpose. They are not their experiences and can master their emotions and feelings. I often incorporate virtues such as compassion, kindness, self-control, and life lessons in teachable moments. 

Every day, we cultivate seeds consciously and unconsciously. We may not always get it right, but within those moments are life lessons for future cultivation moments. 

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The Seeds We Plant Series #60: The Relationship Feedback Loop – Create A Generational Love Cycle With Timika S Chambers

Keywords relationships, self-love, consciousness, empowerment,generational cycles, spirituality, personal growth, emotional health, compassion, forgivenessSummary In this conversation, Timika Chambers delves into theessence of relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-love and understanding the three levels of relationships: with the divine, oneself, and others. She discusses how our thoughts and beliefs shape our actions and relationships,highlighting the significance of forgiveness and self-discovery in breaking generational cycles of pain. The conversation encourages listeners to cultivate love and empowerment within themselves to positively impact their relationshipsand the world around them.Takeaways What do you look for in a relationship?The quality of relationships is more important thanquantity.How you treat yourself reflects how you treat others.Our thoughts cultivate our actions and relationships.Forgiveness is really for you, not the other person."An unexamined life is not worth living" (Socrates)–self-reflection is crucial.We are not here to struggle; we are meant to thrive.What message am I putting out there in my relationships?We help people to find the light within them by settingstandards.If we believe in miracles, we can manifest positive change. Titles The Depths of RelationshipsUnderstanding Self-LoveSound Bites "Our thoughts cultivate our actions.""Forgiveness is really for you.""We are not here to struggle." Chapters 00:00 Exploring the Depths of Relationships02:46 The Divine Connection and Self-Reflection06:08 Understanding the Impact of Self-Treatment on Others08:56 The Power of Thoughts and Collective Consciousness11:48 The Importance of Self-Discovery and Personal Growth15:11 Empowering Relationships and Setting Boundaries18:04 Creating a Generational Love CycleThank you for listening!Sign up for my newsletters for more inspiration and empowerment on living an abundant life in all areas (body, mind, and spirit).https://mailchi.mp/fe2da5c9163a/seven-spiritual-truthsAs always, make this lifetime great because you have within your power to do so.Timika    

1. The Seeds We Plant Series #60: The Relationship Feedback Loop 20:16
2. The Seeds We Plant Series: Relationship with Oneself Part 2 22:40
3. Heal from the Inside Out Series #28: What Does Accepting the Truth After a Painful Experience Mean? 26:12
4. The Seeds We Plant Series #58: Relationships: Who Do You Think You Are? 23:13
5. Special Edition: Why I transitioned to communicating with my children instead of whipping them. 21:30

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