Life presents us with different situations to express our true selves.  We must be careful in not harboring ill will towards another or remembering past behaviors. Instead, we unclothe our experiences and take what resonates with the truth inside ourselves.  Just because someone acted a certain way is never an excuse to repeat the behavior.  And minor renditions of conduct are the same behavior.   Instead of saying I am not as bad as the other person, consider replacing the phrase with I choose to align with the truth in me.  Your spirit knows even if you are unsure of what this truth is. Make this lifetime great because you still can! Timika